2012年8月23日星期四

5 Ways to Find Out If Your Partner Is Cheating On You

When you start suspecting that your partner might be cheating on you, you will look everywhere for the clues to confirm your fears. Below are the 5 ways to find out if your partner is cheating on you.

• The change in body language

Although your partner will say that he/she is not cheating on you, you can determine the truth by taking a closer look at his/her body language. When you confront your partner with cheating allegations, he/ she will try very hard to avoid eye contact when answering you. No cheater is happy with what he/she is doing, and that is why the guilt he/she feels cannot allow him/her to look you in the eye and lie to you after the period you have been together. At the same time, listen carefully to the tone of his/her voice. He/she will be very angry and defensive every time you confront him/her and at times your partner will try as hard as he/she can to avoid answering your questions directly.

• Your partner will receive mysterious calls

The way your partner uses the phone will also help you to know that something is going on behind your back. In this case, your partner will become so secretive that he/she might not allow you to touch his/her phone. When your partner is free, all he/she does is write messages as well receiving calls from people he/she will call friends though you had never heard of them earlier. If your partner leaves the phone behind and you happen to answer it, the caller suddenly hangs up, and your partner will start guarding his/her phone so that you never touch it or know its contents because they know it’s a concrete evidence of their affair.

• Sudden change in sexual behaviors

This is another of the 5 ways to find out if your partner is cheating on you. There may be a big reduction in the times you will have sex with your partner. Many times cheating partners will come with all kinds of excuses to avoid being intimate with you. He might have it once in a while just to remove your doubts, but if you are keen, you will discover that things are not the same. Alternatively, your partner may keep asking for new styles almost every time.

• Evidence

When your partner starts cheating on you, there are many things that you will look out for to discover that it is true. He will always come home late claiming he was hanging out with friends, all you need to is to look at and sniff his/her clothes. There are chances that he/she carried the lover's scent. Try to identify any suspicious smell that you have not had for some time, like cigarette smell if he/she is not a smoker.

• Change in behavior and becoming workaholic

If your partner is cheating on you, he will make up excuses to come home late and will become busy all over a sudden. He may even spend a night out claiming to have had a lot of work at the office.

A cheating partner will start forgetting important events in your life like your birthdays. In addition, he will develop a resentful attitude such that whenever you have an argument, he will walk out on you without finding a solution.

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